Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Blog 3: CONFIDENCE Vs. ARROGANCE


CONFIDENCE Vs. ARROGANCE

          The state of mind or a manner marked by easy coolness and freedom from vagueness, diffidence or awkwardness is what a confidence means. It is the ability to trust your own decisions and instincts. And the arrogance is the act or habit of annexing or making undue claims in the overbearing matters. The difference between these two attributes is tremendously different, but the line regarding the actions and attitudes of these attributes may not be clearly defined. Well quite often, individuals who are usually remarkably confident may sometime cross the line that may lead them into clear arrogance without any knowledge.

Being confident is a good thing, as is being knowledgeable whereas being arrogant is not as these traits make people avoid you or dread being with you. Their difference can also be seen our emotional state as arrogance makes us feel insecure and confidence makes peace in our mind. The more arrogant we become, the more keenly we feel the dependence of our happiness upon the misfortune. Arrogance can be regarded as penurious whereas confidence is free. A confident leader want other people to reveal their talents and ultimately outperform them whereas an arrogant leader need others to continuously feel inferior so that they can protect their own low self-esteem and hide their own deed anxiety. Arrogant people need everyone else to agree with their own point of view and want to see the world revolving around them whereas confident one can embrace differences and put themselves in any world.

Confidence and arrogance are two closely related characteristics that can often be confused with one another. A person may believing that s/he is simply confident may be thought of as arrogant by other people feeling that the confidence shown by s/he is exaggerated.

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